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From Parent To Child


I gave you life,
but cannot live it for you.
I can teach you things,
but I cannot make you learn.

I can give you directions,
but I cannot be there to lead you.
I can allow you freedom,
but I cannot account for it.

I can take you to church,
but I cannot make you believe.
I can teach you right from wrong,
but I cannot always decide for you.

I can buy you beautiful clothes,
but I cannot make you beautiful inside.
I can offer you advice,
but I cannot always decide for you.

I can give you love,
but I cannot force it upon you.
I can teach you to share,
but I cannot make you selfish.

I can teach you respect,
but I cannot force you to show honor.
I can advise you about friends,
but I cannot choose them for you.

I can advise you about sex,
but I cannot keep you pure.
I can tell you the facts of life,
but I cannot build your reputation.

I can tell you about drink,
but I can't say NO for you.
I can warn you about drugs,
but I can't prevent you from using them.

I can tell you about lofty goals,
but I can't achieve them for you.
I can teach you about kindness,
but I can't force you to be gracious.

I can warn you about sins,
but I cannot make your morals.
I can love you as a child,
but I cannot place you in God's family.

I can pray for you,
but I cannot make you walk with God.
I can teach you about Jesus,
but I cannot make Jesus your Lord.

I can tell you how to live,
but I cannot give you Eternal Life.

From Paul London's column From My Viewpoint.
West Central Tribune, Willmar, MN.
Friday, January 12, 1996.

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